Thursday, August 28, 2014

Grandparents


Josh in a tunnel
     John and Rose stayed with us last weekend while their granddaughter Megan played in a soccer tournament in Vancouver.  Megan's team played on Friday night, Saturday mid-day, and Sunday morning.  Back and forth across the Columbia John and Rose  drove, sometimes fighting traffic and sometimes sailing through.  In between games, they introduced Megan's sister and brother to some of the delights of Portland.
Jamie meets Mutt Leigh.  John's photo
    We spent Saturday morning in Powell's City of Books.  I wandered in overwhelm among the children's picture books while Jamie found the latest in her favorite series, Megan chose some fat and serious young adult novels, and Josh selected huge tomes from the science fiction section. I flashed on fond memories of my Fat Lady Skinny Book club, where we read slim volumes and ate rich desserts.
Josh and Rose
   Back at our house, Jamie and Josh played with Mutt Leigh Mae.  After lunch they all headed off to the Portland Aquarium to pet the manta rays, to Oregon Museum of Science and Industry to see the dinosaurs, and then to Vancouver for Megan's next game.  Back at our house again, John and Rose went with us to dinner at Sheila's. We sat in the soft summer night eating Chuck's barbecue ribs and fruit salsa with cinnamon crisps.  Early the next morning John and Rose went off to Vancouver for Megan's final game.  Then they made the drive back to Sequim.
Chuck, Judy, Rose
Josh meets Mutt Leigh
    
     Meanwhile, Judy has decided that she will just say no to the experimental drug perfiderone.  She values her quality of life and does not want to take chances with
disturbing the current slow rate of progression of her disease.
   

Friday, August 22, 2014

Busy in the slow lane

     Judy is playing Ashokan Farewell on the dulcimer, a hummingbird is thrumming at the edge of the deck, and the little boys in the corner house are giggling and laughing in their swimming pool.  Welcome to  to summer in the slow lane at our house.
Grandmother's rug
     I arrived home from Rehoboth with three small  rugs that my grandmother  designed an had made in China in the 1930s. The beige ovals with bamboo leaves had covered the living room floor of the house I grew up in.  They lived in my houses in McLean and Falls Church until I moved west, when I gave them back to my mother.  This summer my sister Eileen was ready to get them out of her ironing room, and I was eager to have them back home. But how to get them from Maryland to Oregon? The five Sullivan sisters went into action.  Vonnie and Eileen talked about shipping, but Rose suggested that maybe I could check them as luggage on the plane.  Three different pieces of luggage?  No, Rose the geometry teacher figured that we could roll them together and still conform to Delta Airlines' luggage guidelines. "If they give you a hard time," declared Florrie," tell them it's your prayer rug." We all trooped over to the Fed Ex store, where  I got to see Florrie in action.  She charmed the clerk into packaging the roll securely for under $10.  Delta accepted the  rugs without question, and they arrived safely in Portland. When I took them to be cleaned I was  lamenting the worn spots on them.   The nice man at Atiyeh Brothers said, "In our world, that makes them interesting."
Judy and autoharp buddy Holly
     Judy was unable to go to the annual Willamette Valley autoharp weekend because navigating the physical plant  would have been too strenuous in the summer heat.  I drove one of the performers out to the camp, and was flooded with the outpouring of love and be-well messages to take back to Judy.  One fine player is dedicating her performance of The Happy Wanderer to Judy.  Judy still got to see some of her good friends; they  came in from Forest Grove for an evening to have dinner with her and to jam.
Lisha and Kathe
    Kathe and Lisha came to visit from their sheep farm in Colorado. We stayed pretty close to home during the four days they were here, eating the Trader Joe's food that they introduced me to.  We planned to have another day with them when they returned to Portland from a wedding in Ashland, but Kathe had caught a cold that she didn't want Judy exposed to.  So we visited briefly in the driveway, and they went on to a motel.  Judy gave Lisha a drum she had made years ago.
     Judy has long made a practice of finding the right person to whom to give a thing that she is ready to give up.  Nowadays, though, she is doing more of that. "I'm giving things away so you wasn't have to," she says. The drum went to Lisha,  the satin blouse to Donna, the silver flute to Midori, the quilting squares to Roxie. The framing hammer with which she had built a house went into the bag for the church rummage sale, but I pulled it out.  The right person for the hammer will appear.
Judy with her framing hammer